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By Kelsey on March 20, 2013 6

My Dreams for Rooney

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We were talking the other day how Rooney is going to be such a cool person. Eric even went so far as to say that she will be the coolest 80-year-old. Lemme tell you, it kind of blows your mind to think of your daughter as an 80-year-old, because you know that you probably won’t be around to see it. But, hopefully she gets there some day!

And it just sort of got me thinking about what I wish for her in her life. I jotted a few things down here, and hope that I do everything I can to help her achieve these dreams — but only if they are also her dreams.

In Faith, Motherhood

By Kelsey on February 14, 2013 30

My Favorite Mommy Blogs

I read a lot of blogs. I love to learn and get different perspectives on how things can be done. I am always wanting to find my own way to do something. I don’t settle with “that’s how it’s always been done.” Not just about mothering, but fashion, decorating, etc. Blogs help me get new ideas.

I’ve cut down the number of blogs I read since I switched jobs, but I still read a lot of blogs I’m not even sure I could guess an accurate number. Maybe 20? And those are just the ones I read daily. I also like to check out new blogs every now and then. There are a few fashion-only blogs that I follow, but at this point I am mostly attracted to mom blogs.

(Please note that not all these blogs would categorize themselves as mommy blogs, but they are moms who have blogs and at least occasionally post about mom stuff. I also don’t agree with everything they post about, but I appreciate their points of view!)

In Blogging, Motherhood

By Kelsey on January 23, 2013 63

Are We a Two-Kid Family?

*This is not a pregnancy announcement in any way. I apologize if the post title is misleading…I couldn’t think of another way to word it. Moving on…

You may remember that I’ve always thought it would be cool to have four kids. I’ve thought about it a lot. And lately I’ve been trying to be more realistic, now that I know what it’s like to have a baby, and taking my personality into account.

A few weeks ago Roo and I were both sick, and it was really hard. In the midst of it, I told Eric that I think I can maybe only handle two kids. And he said he was thinking the exact same thing (for the record, he’s always thought he wanted two).

I’m actually not even sure how people with two kids do it!

Back when I wanted 4, I thought we better start pumping ‘em out. You know. I’m going to be 30 this year. But if we’re only having two, then I don’t need or want to rush into having the second! Which has honestly been a relief for me (not that we’re locked into this or can’t change our minds).

In Motherhood

By Kelsey on January 16, 2013 8

Update: Wednesdays With Rooney

It’s already been three months since I got my new job! I’ve had a lot of people ask how it’s going, so I thought it would be fitting to share with you all here.

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So, how’s it going?

I absolutely love my new schedule of working four days a week. It has given me more mental clarity and relieved more stress than I could have ever imagined. I really wondered if I’d have to cut down to three days to even feel the difference, but I definitely feel it. Over the holidays I worked a few Wednesdays so I could have other days off to travel for Christmas, and I really missed having that extra day at home! It is so wonderful!

In Motherhood

By Kelsey on December 17, 2012 7

When Did Life Start to Feel Normal After Baby?

quote Hey Kelsey,
I know you had a hard time right after your baby was born and I just am seeking advice/your opinion. My son is 11 days old and I feel all out of sorts. I want to feel like we can still do things with a baby! So how long did it take you guys to start feeling a rhythm, etc? –Emily

First, congratulations! You are at the beginning of a very special relationship and it will take time to get to know this little person you created. Soon you will be the expert on everything he wants and needs! Being a mother is fascinating and wonderful and complex, and there is a lot to process and learn as you go. One thing is certain — you are going to be a fabulous mom!

My heart goes out to you because I remember so clearly feeling what you are describing. And I could answer your question in a few different ways because there are a number of moments along my journey that I can distinctly remember when things got better. Please remember that my story is not necessarily your story, and it may go quicker or a little slower for you.

In Motherhood