As Kelsey said last week, we recently spent a week in the Okoboji area. This is our 10th summer as a couple, and we’ve spent time there together every year. It’s an awesome in-state getaway for us and we’re truly blessed to have a place to stay when we are there.
Maybe we’re just naive and the only ones who never thought of this before, but for vacation we’ve started to plan not only the week we are away from home, but the week before we leave and the week after we get back. Now that we’re responsible for more than ourselves on vacation (Rooney packs more than the two of us combined), we’ve tried to really think through our time off and how to get the most out of it.
Confession: Last year we learned that vacation with a newborn is not really a vacation. It was more like a tornado picked us and all our baby junk up and set us down four hours away in a familiar/enjoyable location, except we still had to be rookie parents who had no idea what happened to vacation as we knew it.
It wasn’t that we didn’t love being parents, it was that for eight years prior, Okoboji had been our place of escape, adventure, relaxation and bliss. Last year, it all changed with a newborn. I was frustrated not being able to relax the way that we had in the past. This year was completely different for a number of reasons that I will get to in a moment. Another important thing we changed this year from last year was our own mental thinking, taking a family approach to the vacation vs. the selfish agenda we’ve always had in the past. (Rooney is not the only one who has grown a lot in the past year.)
A few weeks before we left, we came to the realization that we should think about vacation in three stages: pre-party, party, and the hangover…